Liwen: responding 2 ur post on "21 March 2007"


it has alwas been my wish 2 b able 2 get married asap bt nt nw lar... asap as in like aft the age of 21 n b4 25 hopefully.... aft i gt attached n frm last yr onwards, i had been tinkin of tis... tinkin of when can i get married... when can i hav my own hse, so tat i can decorate it 2 wat i wan... tinkin of when can i b able 2 stay hm n nt work (i feel the same as u, like 2 stay hm bcos dun like 2 work ha bt tink most ple dun like workin too)... stay hm cook plenty of dishes n wait 4 husband 2 cum hm bathe n eat tog... ya hw nice!!!


bt then i told myself, all these r jus dreams... jus pure wishes... afterall, tis is still the reality.. been tinkin quite alot recently... getting married is nt jus getting married, staying tog, there's actually plenty of other factors 2 consider, like money, tolerance, patience, no longer able 2 rely on parents n gt 2 b independent, gt 2 learn 2 make the rite decision, hw long can the marriage last, if 1 dae both quarrel under the same roof, hw 2 solve it?? leave hm??, n aso 4 my case my dogs etc etc.....


its nt simple


its gd 2 dream... its nth wrong wif dreaming... i myself love dreaming alot... daytime dream, noon time dream, nitetime aso dream, 24hrs aso dreaming bt then wat 4 keep dreaming n pin hope on it tat ur dream will fulfill...


wat if 1 dae ur dream reali wun cum true??


so 1 mus learn nt 2 b too greedy or i shd sae, b more sensible... noe when 2 hold on n when 2 let go...


so rite nw, i'm beginning 2 understand the fact tat "the more u wan ting 2 happen the way u wan, the more it will happen the way u dun wish 2"



its alwas happening tis way, so its betta 2 b in a clear mind n understand the difference between dreams n reality... dreams r alwas so wonderful, so perfect bt reality is cruel at times... so i had learnt 2 accept the fact tat i'm in the reality n nt in dreamland... therefore, even if my wishes cant cum true i will jus accept it n look 4ward...