. Marriage .

jus finished watching the 9pm show... a veri nice n factual show... a show toking abt marriage, abt guys n gers' mindset... all along i have long 2 get married young... maeb at the age of 21.. perhaps 2 sum of u out there, getting married at a young age is nt a gd ting bt then 2 mi, i find tat getting married young is nt a bad ting if onli u hav gt a stable n trusted partner n relationship...

honestly, i'm veri proud of myself 2 hav such a nice bf... a bf hu loves mi more than he loves himself... veri contented wif wat i hav nw.. onli tat i hav been yearning 2 get married n hav our own hse.. a hse belonging 2 mi n him... sounds like the melissa in the show... bt i'm nt totally like her yet cos i'm still young... hee...

aft we hav gt our hse, we can paint n design the hse tog... buy furnitures tog... slp tog.. eat tog... watch tv tog... isnt tat nice? bt maeb its true tat seeing each other too often mae nt b a gd ting aso.. esp when it cums 2 living under the same roof... bound 2 hav lots of conflicts... tats y my dear alwas sae, when i'm nt happi abt aniting, tell him so tat he noes... dun wait till cannot endure le then pour everyting out 2 him... perhaps tat will b too late... i believe gd communication is as impt as trust in a relationship... jus like the show tat mr chua n his wife, patricia... sumtimes the tone u speak does matters alot 2 the other party... if cant bring urself 2 speak well, then leave a letter 2 the other party n gif each other time 2 understand.. bt tink most ple cant bring urself 2 pt out the bad habits of the other party.. ha.. tink i aso cant... n aniwae my dear doesnt hav ani bad habits other than being stubborn...

i'm lucky i hav a bf hu wish 2 settle dwn early aso... maeb cos he is already 3 yrs older than mi... so actually an age gap of 3 yrs is jus nice 4 couples... like sum of my frens... their bfs r the same age as them so by the time the guy is financially stable the ger will b near 30 by then... n if by tat time the relationship suddenly bcum sour, tink the ger gtg matchmaking like the melissa...

actually both marriage n staying single have their own troubles jus tat both encounter different troubles... maeb stayin single will hav lesser problems cos there's 1 less person 2 b troubled abt... bt bt bt... my urge on gettin married early wun change cos of tat aso... cos i hav faith n believe in myself n my dear tat we r able 2 maintain our marriage... n of cos there's love... ha... if nt hw 2 get married?? yr 2008 8th aug is our promise 2 each other... hopefully by then we can fulfill tis promise...

cant wait 4 tis day... haha... GOSH!!! i sound like melissa nw... cant wait 2 get married... ha... bt nvm... tats all gers' dream.. isnt it? hee